Hi everyone! I'm just your average(but, then again, are any of us girls "average"??) transgirl....though, really, in my own mind, I've felt this way for a LONG time. But, it would be nice to have the "visuals" to align with my heart and soul. Current "stats": 6'2", 134 lbs, 36-28-34, auburn hair, brown eyes...i.e., just another wispy transsexual gal, eagerly wanting to begin a "new life", and, truly, finally BE what I should have been all along. On here, I mostly like to chat with other TG's, CD's, GGs etc., but I'll chat with anyone who's nice. What do I like to wear, you ask? Well, if it's pink....;-)

I lived for my first 50 years, in a small southern Illinois town, 5000 people. For about 40 years, I didn't tell anyone about "me"...thank goodness the Internet arrived in (for me) 1996. It has never been the same with my life since!

After almost 8 years of marriage, and around 10 of knowing one another, my wife and I are no longer married. We will always love one another, in some way, of that I have no doubt. I hope she does find love again...I know she certainly deserves such happiness. I have been SO fortunate to have had her in my life for the past 10 years. Love you always, BJ! She passed away, June 24th, 2016.

UPDATE!!:(12/7/2007) I am now officially "Out"! :-) Thank you to Miranda, Eve, Marie, Kelly, Lola, and many other girls out there in Beautiful San Francisco--You made my first night out, on my birthday no less, a beautiful time! And, also, that same weekend, I came out to my brother and his wife--they will support me! Omg, what a weekend!!

SCC was THE best time!! Please read my journal. :-)

I moved to Northern California, September 2010, and along with my continuing transition, this all is the happiest I've been, no doubt!

I worked at Walmart for 12 years...last worked there May 2022, and retired there. I'm on full disability now, although I am well, physically, and I can still drive.

I now have a girlfriend, she's also a MTF transgender woman...half my age, but she said it doesn't matter--thankful for that, and SO thankful for her love for me!

I am a single woman now, but now that I have a girlfriend--not "really". ;-) I am so happy to be a transgender woman! I began transitioning, fully, in March 2009. And, after a few "bumps" along the way, transitioning has been wonderful! SO grateful!! And, it will certainly not be uneventful! ;-) I'm very excited about my life though!

I have my legal name and gender change--July 10th, 2023, and the paperwork is filed, my new driver's license and all the rest--done! Happy beyond words!!

The friendships I have made here, and elsewhere online, have enriched my life beyond measure...Thank you to all who have befriended me, and made me feel like I truly belong. I really do love you all!! ((HUGS))

Anyway.... thank you URNA! Vicky, Jon, you do a wonderful service on here. Congratulations on 10 years! Please say "Hii!" sometime, girls! Take care everyone. ((HUGS))